*hugs* *morebigknuddelhugs* I am very sorry to hear about your grandmother. But from what you told about her, how she was ever more confused, it probably was best. I know how stupid this sounds, when you miss someone. But the thing with the old people is, they die slowly. Much of what you loved about her probably dies 2 or 3 years ago already, and some more after she moved into that home, and so on. It was like that with my grandma. Just think that she is warm and safe now, no more pain, and knows again all teh things she forgot. Is herself again. At peace, where down here she was just confused. Always searching for something, not even knowing what.
I understand well that you don't want to move again. Or at least not more than to teh next street, so that you coudl keep your social surroundings. Men often don't understand how importatn that is. *Huggles*
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*morebigknuddelhugs*
I am very sorry to hear about your grandmother.
But from what you told about her, how she was ever more confused, it probably was best. I know how stupid this sounds, when you miss someone. But the thing with the old people is, they die slowly. Much of what you loved about her probably dies 2 or 3 years ago already, and some more after she moved into that home, and so on. It was like that with my grandma. Just think that she is warm and safe now, no more pain, and knows again all teh things she forgot. Is herself again. At peace, where down here she was just confused. Always searching for something, not even knowing what.
I understand well that you don't want to move again. Or at least not more than to teh next street, so that you coudl keep your social surroundings. Men often don't understand how importatn that is.
*Huggles*